Bigballs, tight balls, noballs– how you gonna choose? When you’re deciding which realistic dildo to get, a shaft with testicles offers several big advantages. But, silicone shafts will balls aren’t perfect for everyone or every usage.

So what does that mean, really? I’ve listed out my big pro-balls vs. no-balls advantages. After testing more than 700 dildos over the last decade, I have a general preference, but I always also am ready to switch between shaft-only and testes-tacular 😄silicone dildo choices – for the very different feels.

All dildos mentioned here meet Phal.Reviews’ body-safe criteria, of only containing functionally nonporous silicone that will notdegrade nor let mold grow on your dildo!!!

Contents

• 1 Pros of Dildos with Balls
• 2 Cons of Dildos with Balls
• 3 My Best Dildo with Balls (Real Feeling)
• 4 How to Use a Dildo with Balls for Clitoral Stimulation
  • 4.1 Tip #1 for Clit Stim. from Dildo Balls: Dildo Length
  • 4.2 Tip #2 for Clit Stim. from Dildo Balls: Dildo must face the right direction.
  • 4.3 Tip #3 for Clit Stim. from Dildo Balls: Try Grinding on the Silicone Balls, Solo
  • 4.4 Tip #4 for Dildos with Balls: R u Using Enough Good Lubricant?
  • 4.5 Tip #5 for Clit Stim. from Dildo Balls: Ride Down on It!

Pros of Dildos with Balls

• Clitoral Stimulation (or external stimulation).*
• Full Package Look.
• Can beSquishy & Squeezable. This is much more satisfying to me – a fleshy squish – vs. harddildo balls (hard is meh, feels weird).

*If the dildo is the right direction (balls up,toward your clit & belly side; while the dildo’s head is facing your ass). More how-to dildo with balls directions, below.

Cons of Dildos with Balls

• Maybe More Difficult to Grip while thrusting the dildo by hand. (Depends on the specific dildo. Bigger balls = harder to hold.)
• Must be the right shaft length & right ball size for clit stimulation. Exact size need varies by person, and by whether you’re doing anal or vaginal stuff.*

*Anyone who has a naturally shallower vagina will require a not-long dildo to accomplish clit stimulation from its sack. Many dildos run much longerthan average penis length, they’re not tailored for median vaginal depth. Dildos under 5″ with testicles are too rare.

My Best Dildo with Balls (Real Feeling)

Solina ultra realistic platinum silicone dildos r the most kick-ass lifelike line I’ve ever encountered. I really, really like the Mega testicle-free line of 3 sizes. But it’s awesome to have the be-balleddildo choices now, too. The 3 new models are called:

1. Spotta.The G-spotter. Longer balls should reach your clit better. Awesome sculpted design. Semi-flexible shaft.
2. Prima.Best first dildo if you want true to life. Smaller balls, but compacted, so they’re centrally focused (the clit is positioned centrally too, not off to the right or the left side of the vulva). My Prima review here.
3. Maxima.Bigger, separated balls. Super-fun to grip and squish. Squeeze them while jerking inthe dildo, too: makes me more turned-on. Girthy head for deep vaginal expansiveness.
4. Shallower depth: Neo Elite 6″ is the shortest I know with a good sack: a smidge over 4.5″ usable length, and a big ball shelf.

It’s been a decade that I’ve searched for the most real feeling but body-safe dildo. Something lifelike enough, but that didn’t get sticky or shrink & crack or hang onto bacteria and fungus like quote-unquote“real feel” dildos made of TPE/TPR do. (These thermoplastics are softened with mystery plasticizers, causing them to become very porous.)

Silicone is by far the superior safe sex toy polymer. But some silicone blends just feel nicer than others. Dual-density silicone takes soft + hard to the next level by putting a softer, “fleshy” layer over a hard core, so it’s more erect but also will squish & doesn’t beat up the cervix.

How to Use a Dildo with Balls for Clitoral Stimulation

When I’m deciding whether to ball or not to ball, clit stimulation is the biggest factor.

Often I’ll use a separate clitoral vibrator or “suction” stimulator at the same time as a dildo, or as a warmup right before getting it on with a dildo vaginally.

If the vibrating toy is running around my clit, then silicone balls can get in the way.

But other times, I’ll want to rub onsofter silicone while f*cking a silicone dildo with balls.

Tip #1 for Clit Stim. from Dildo Balls: Dildo Length

The key here:The dildo cannot be too long for your vagina, if you want clit sensation from the dildo’s balls. For example, I can only get about 5.5 inches length sheathed vaginally.

The vagina can grow somewhatlonger as you get more aroused, and some people even train to add up to 2 inches vaginal length over time. So, it’s not a hard limit for everyone– but it is my own limit’s that if a dildo possesses over 6″ shaft length, the balls sitting outside aren’t gonna do shit for meclitorally.

So, you gotta own the right dildo that your vagina can fully envelop. I adore both the new smaller Solina ultra-realistics with balls for this reason, that the shaft is short enough and the balls are tight enough: they form a wide expanse to cover all around my clit.

The Solina Spotta is really good in particular, with its longer sack. I think it’s the best dildo I’ve ever owned for the “from-balls” stimulation alone.

Tip #2 for Clit Stim. from Dildo Balls: Dildo must face the right direction.

On a live person, the balls of course hang downward: they’re underneath the penis shaft, vertically. That’s why the balls-side is what we’ll call the “underside” here, versus the “top side” being the dildo’s opposite half where you can see the head best & the coronal ridge, or crown of the penis head = glans.

For G-spot stimulation, it’s easier to use the dildo head-up: meaning, its balls are on the perineum + back side of the body.

But for clit stimulation, you need the reverse: the dildo’s balls facing upward (bellybutton side) as its ridge faces your butt.

So it’s a conscious selection you gotta make, when deciding which way to orient the dildo. You can always switch, too, flipping the dildo from G-spot-orientation to a clit-stim. orientation with its balls now upward.

*Assuming you’re lying on your back in bed. That’s the most comfy position to dildo thrust for me. Other people may be doggy-style positioned so the dildo can give clit stimulation as its balls do face downward: Achieve this either with a partner thrusting the dildo into your body, or with a fucking machine doing the work.

Tip #3 for Clit Stim. from Dildo Balls: Try Grinding on the Silicone Balls, Solo

If you’re feeling a bit unenthusiastic about vaginal dildo-ing, make sure you’re clitorally aroused enough.

You can achieve this by taking the dildo out, and just rubbing its shaft against your vulva, and/or holding the shaft like a handle while rubbing its balls against your clitoris.

Tip #4 for Dildos with Balls: R u Using Enough Good Lubricant?

Dry dildo is not good dildo. As much as dual-density silicone dildos are improving the lifelike feel, they are made of a polymer, so they’re not exactlylike skin:

And even with real-life penises, sex can randomly be dry or uncomfortable; or your partner’s size may stretch you to varying degrees.

Using balanced sex lubricant is never something to feel bad about– srsly, it will make your sex better if you’re not very wet all the time. It’s totally common to be super-aroused, but still not moist enough for maximum comfort!

Tip #5 for Clit Stim. from Dildo Balls: Ride Down on It!

Dildo mount!!!

Damnit dammit dammitI’m so glad I have this set-up now, but also find myself trying not to regret not owning it yearsssss ago. This pair is just so useful for better dildo riding.

What is it? The Lap Strap harness here, strategically wrapped around a soft pillow.💥

I’d seen people tying scarves around things and whatever, which kind of worked; or people riding paint cans… which felt hard. This is cleaner, easier to wash, and I can always add more pillows under the top, flat pillow.

That’s awesome for me as a 5’8″ person who found that Liberator dildo mounts and the T.O.M. plastic box mount were always a few inches too lowto my bed. I tried angling them, wedging more pillows, which was… OK… but it’s a $120 pillow that doesn’t fit *me*well, but then feels unstably rollywhen I put another pillow under it, to fit my legs’ length. That’s disappointing.

This is better, half the price but can suit any height – because your own bed pillows won’t roll off of each other.

Stick a fab suction cup dildo on top, and the harnessed pillow mount lets me screw the silicone dildo with balls hard, or slow; grind or fast-fuck; riding or rocking. It’s options. And I can just rotate the pillow 180 quickly, and stick in a clitoral vibrator. Nobody’s in the way.

Even if you’ve got a penis-having partner, it’s good to have this positioning aide because they can watch you enjoy yourself, and can hold you from behind while you’re riding so its a safe threesome thing, etc. etc.

Is the best dildo accessory (besides good lubricant) ever? Yes yes yes.No more hard floors, literally banging into walls, hard edges, too-short mounts – none of it. This soft pillow riding pair is tops.